This week we talked a lot about dating, and how some of the habits you form in dating can carry into your relationship of marriage. You have to be very careful to carefully date in such a way that we build healthy relationships with those who we care about. One aspect that we talked about is the three P's of dating and the three P's that are roles of a father and husband in a house hold. I never connected the two together before, but it is true that proper dating matches up very well with the attributes you are striving for in a husband.

Paired off - Protect

     responsible for others, getting to know.

Planned - Preside

     beginning, clarity in the beginning, end plan, structure

Paid for - Provide

     in advance

The more you have in common with a person the more likely you are to stay together in a marriage, it is not true that opposites attract, you need to have similarities so that you have something in common a way to connect and something that you can do together. There are somethings that you can have different, as a complement, but you are not opposites.